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Sterling Notebook: Bawal Basahin!
12
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Nurse, gising na siya!
Nurse, gising na siya!
Hays. Never to cheating talaga. Sa case ni Mommy Ganda, it was understandable naman na she’s concerned for her children but what she did wasn’t justifiable. Cheating will never be justifiable. Tama nga naman si Karina, ni never niya namang hiniling na magkaroon ng tatay para gawin ‘yon ng Mommy niya. It’s a bitter pill to swallow lang sa side ni Karina to hear na “I did it for your sake”, when the thing her mother label as ‘nakakabuti’ is just causing pain to other people. Kasi let’s be honest, what Mommy Ganda thought she did was ‘right’ ay nag-cause lang ng conflict—to Irene’s family and to what she have with Karina. ‘yung sinasabi ni Mommy Ganda na para lang hindi maulit kay Eunwoo ‘yung naging situation ni Karina, from the start pa lang pwedeng naman nang maiwasan ‘yung nangyari e. She could’ve walked away already the moment na malaman niyang married na si Daddy Chickboy. But they made their relationship messier by having Eunwoo. Kahit pa sabihin na hindi anticipated ‘yung pregnancy ni Mommy with Eunwoo, it’s still a matter of choices. And they chose to do it. Irene and Karina’s anger is just the aftermath of their wrongdoings. Consequences for every action you make, ika nga. In the end, Mommy Ganda cannot really blame Karina for how she acted because it hurt her. She didn’t ask for a father yet pinagpipilitan sa kanya na para lang sa ikabubuti niya ‘yon. Na mali naman ‘yung ganong pagdadahilan. And Karina’s really brave for standing up for what’s right, choosing to adhere to her morals, the choice her mother failed to do.
IKA NGA NILA “CHEATING IS A CHOICE, NOT A MISTAKE. BURIKAT KA MOMY GANDA!!!!!
my dad also have a mistress and my mom is a mistress. damnnn I don’t know what to feel sa chapter na to
my mom was a mistress. i feel like im seeing myself through karina. like mommy ganda, alam din ng mom ko na shes a mistress pero wala rin siyang ginawa and nakadalawa pa sila like omg. although nagpart ways naman ang parents ko and my father went back to his first family, hindi na rin nagbago ang tingin ko sa kaniya as someone na selfish and maharot. i have an older sister sa tatay ko and a brother na same age ko lang like ang wtf lang kasi hindi niya maitabi ang kaharutan and then my little sister. then few years later, nag-asawa ulit mom ko. and gaya kay rina, ipinipilit din ng mom ko na para sakin naman yun for my own good pero like i never asked for a father din kasi kuntento na rin naman ako na i have my mom lang. ang fucked up lag isipin na parents do stuff na very selfish and reasons it out by saying na para naman sa mga bata.
My dad also have a mistress and it’s really painful reading this chapter although POV to ni mommy ganda, I still can’t accept how can someone do this things sa family nila, lalo na at dugo at laman nila kami. My dad keep on acting like nothing happened after I confronted him pero kasi kahit sabihin mo na tanggap ko na, na wala na talaga at pinili nya na yung other family nya feeling ko forever na yung pain at never ko na sya makikita bilang tatay ko.
🫂 Virtual hug with consent.
Rereading SNBB and for the second time, I still don’t get Mommy Ganda’s point.
Never naging justifiable yung ginawa nila ni Daddy Chickboy, kahit balibaliktarin man yung words the things they did from the past and yung mga decision na ginagawa nya till now is still selfish and insensitive.
And Rina was right, hindi naman sya nagask for a father, hindi rin naman sya tinanong ng Mom nya kung gusto nya ba ng tatay or kung anong gusto nya.
Sobrang disrespectful lang na papangunahan mo yung tao or member ng family nyo kung anong gusto nila, assuming that you know them very well kasi you are family not knowing na you’re disrespecting them as a person.
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funny how this kind of thoughts can destroyed three relationships.
1. Irene’s family
2. How this affects so much of sari-sari seulrene
3. karina towards her mum’s
“I don’t think we’re better people to judge others with what’s wrong or right” damn right
After reading this chapter about Mommy Ganda’s side of the story, naawa lang lalo ako sa mga bata—Karina and Eunwoo. Like, kahit against kay Karina ‘yung wedding at lahat-lahat, parang wala pa ring silbi ‘yung thoughts niya sa nangyayari dahil nakapag-decide na si Mommy Ganda. Ala lang ang sad lang. Eventually, malalaman din ni Eunwoo ‘yan lahat paglaki and natatakot ako sa ano pwedeng isipin or gawin niya na baka mas malala pa (huwag naman sana) sa ginawang pag-alis ng Ate niya. He’s a sweet and smart kid eh. Nakakatakot lang kapag may nagbago sa kanya in the future. Ouchie. And clearly, the end doesn’t justify the means sa part na ‘to. Never kong matatanggap ginawa niyo, Mommy Ganda and Daddy Chickboy or the cheating in general, whatever reason people have.
this chapter does give more insight into mommy ganda’s actions, but it still doesn’t justify her actions.
never ko talaga matatanggap yung ginawa ni mommy ganda at daddy chickboy… ang gago ang selfish ang sakit. their kids deserve better hay